No Excuses Chore Cards for Kids

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I love to read ideas about chore charts and chore incentives geared for children in the idyllic years before they hit the double digit ages. I long for the days when an adorable chart with cute pictures solved my chore problems challenges. (Please don’t misunderstand, I’m not belittling the chore chart. It’s just that the grass is always greener and I would love to make an adorable chart with pretty paper and cute pictures. A chart that would result in excited children admiring my crafty hard work.) These chore cards for kids and families work well for tweens, teens and even adults. 
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But, sigh, I’m in a different stage of chore problems challenges with my children. My children are 10 years old, 14 years old and 16 years old (almost 17). They are old enough to remember to do their chores and old enough to understand what is expected (and despite what they might tell you, no, I don’t expect perfection.)  They are old enough to be unimpressed by cute chore charts made with love by their Mommy.  Sigh.

 In the past year, I’ve heard all the excuses about why chores weren’t done or weren’t done correctly. 

  • “I for-go-ot.”
  • “You never told me.” Is it just me or is the emphasis always on it being my fault?
  • “I never knew.” Read, it’s my fault because I never told them.
  • “You must have told (name of sister or brother) .” Hmm, again, this would be my fault.
  • “But I did do it!” (said with indignation) Well, this one must somehow be my fault, too.

I tried patiently reminding my wonderful children. I tried explaining why each step of a chore is important. I tried reviewing the chore’s steps again, and again. I tried scolding. I tried punishing (correct term is “giving them consequences for their behavior”) with an additional chore. I was almost ready to give up and just do it myself. But the parent educator in me wouldn’t let me do that.

Finally the last time one of my daughters (who shall remain nameless to protect the guilty) said, “I never knew that. You didn’t tell me I had to do that” and I knew very well that I had told her several times, the light bulb went off. Bing.

No Excuse Chore Cards

 
clean your room and trash cans chore cards
the front and back of a bathroom cleaning chore card

I made chore cards for each of the chores that weren’t being done completely or correctly.  I used a 3 1/2 by 5 inch piece of paper to write the chores down.  I decided to write it by hand rather than print the cards out to personalize it for my children.  I want them to remember that this is our family not just some generic requirement.  And although I really wanted to use cute paper and pictures, I made the cards simple so my children wouldn’t disregard them because “they’re for little kids.”  I need to respect them and their maturity (even though Mommy is still longing to make a cute chore chart).

4 chore cards for bathroom cleaning, trash cans, dishes & kitchen cleanup, and clean your room

I pulled out the ol’ laminating machine and laminated the cards so they’ll be sure to last a good long time.

The children can take the card with them while they do their chore if they want or they can review the card when they’re done with the chore to make sure they hit each of the items that should have been done.  It’s up to them how they want to use the chore card.  It’s purpose is to help them in whatever way works best for each of them.

dishes & kitchen cleanup chore card

My daughters and I had been having ongoing problems discussions about what “doing the dishes” actually means.  Because this was driving me crazy (said in a whisper so they don’t overhear me), I decided to place this particular chore card right in front of the kitchen sink.  This way they can’t say, “I didn’t know.”  It makes it easier for me to handle when they don’t do it correctly; all I say is “Did you look at the chore card?”  No fussing, no scolding and a happy Mommy.

These simple Chore Cards for Kids have really made a difference. There’s a big improvement in how my children are completing their chores and a big reduction in the nagging I have to do (and we know that’s a really big win!)

You know what they say, “A happy Mommy makes for a happy home.”  Or at least that’s what I keep telling my children.

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  2. You are really onto something here. I get the same sort of reply from my 8 and 10 year olds. I like that you wrote the cards in your own handwriting to keep it real and pertinent to your family. I love that you laminated them. I also really appreciate seeing what your standards are for clean as they are similar to mine. πŸ™‚ It is difficult for my 8 year old to decipher “clean your room” means without explanation but it’s often difficult for me to list the steps. You have given me a great entry point to adopt this idea in my house. Thanks for sharing!!

  3. I have to admit, I never made my daughter do chores. She knew that if I asked her to do something for me, she was supposed to. I didn’t ask her to do much, but when I needed help she was always there. These are great cards and I understand the purpose of them. I am sure there are a lot of Moms who can use these.

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